禮與食孰重
Which Is More Important, Propriety or Food?
任人有問屋廬子曰:"禮與食孰重?"曰:"禮重。"
"色與禮孰重?"曰:"禮重。"
曰:"以禮食,則飢而死;不以禮食,則得食,必以禮乎?親迎,則不得妻;不親迎,則得妻,必親迎乎!"屋廬子不能對,明日之鄒以告孟子。
孟子曰:"於答是也何有?不揣其本而齊其末,方寸之木可使高於岑樓。金重於羽者,豈謂一鉤金與一輿羽之謂哉?取食之重者,與禮之輕者而比之,奚翅食重?取色之重者,與禮之輕者而比之,奚翅色重?往應之曰:'紾兄之臂而奪之食,則得食;不紾,則不得食,則將紾之乎?逾東家牆而摟其處子,則得妻;不摟,則不得妻,則將摟之乎?'"
A man of Ren asked Wulu Zi: “Which is more important, propriety or food?” “Propriety.” “Which is more important, desire or propriety?” “Propriety.” The man then posed extreme cases: if following propriety means starving, but ignoring it means getting food, must one follow propriety? Wulu Zi could not answer. Mencius resolved it: “Do not compare the weightiest aspect of one with the lightest of the other. Would you twist your brother’s arm to steal his food? Would you climb your neighbor’s wall to seize their daughter?”
